Would you want to know if your partner either married or dating was cheating on you? Would you do something about it if you knew?
I posted recently about my sister outing the married guy she was dating (he told her he was single) She let his wife know and the wife didn't care. She cared that she was publicly embarrassed but not that her husband was cheating.
I learned last night that a friend of mine was cheating on another friend of mine. I want to tell her but I don't know how or if it will cause more harm that good. The guy apparently has a Craigslist ad wanting casual sex. REALLY!?! I left a FB post that said I knew a friend of my was cheating on another friend of mine through craiglist. I was hoping he would feel guilty and come clean. so far he has not.
Yes some people may say its the pot calling the kettle black but I would never have cheated had I known for sure I had been cheated on (and I was) because I would have left. My family was ruined because of cheating. If my parents had just split up a decade sooner I would probably be in a better emotional state.
This was his response when my friend asked him if he was the husband of the woman he is cheating on. Why when there is a rough patch people want to bolt instead of working on the problem?