31 days of Relationships....I'm hateful

Last night Abbey came home from visiting with her dad. She was so excited about a conversation they had about religion and what their thoughts and beliefs were. In the course of this conversation I got the impression that she and Greg were saying that I am not a nice person. So I came out and asked......

Do you think I'm hateful?

He said yes without hesitating and she said I go from hateful to cranky to wanting to be left alone. So there you go. You learn something new about yourself everyday. I would by no means classify myself as hateful. I don't take crap from people and I don't tolerate when people are rude/mean to me. But I am never just hateful.....but I guess I am. He said I should ask myself throughout the day if I am a happy and chipper person. Which I guess I am not.

He also said If I decide I don't like someone no amount of anything will get me to like them again. Well yeah, because I don't just dislike people for no reason. Everyone I dislike has done something to me or someone that I love.

3 comments

  1. I guess that makes me "hateful" too, because I don't tolerate people's crap and if I don't like someone, I let them know it instead of being fake. Yeesh.

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  2. I don't think you're hateful. You just like your space. I'm the same way.

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  3. Your daughter and your ex were having that conversation? Has anyone ever told him that that's not an appropriate conversation to be having with her?

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